Sunday, July 29, 2012
shades of life: Assam molestation-Wore a short skirt, get ready to...
shades of life: Assam molestation-Wore a short skirt, get ready to...: My eyes opened today morning, saw the watch, got scared for a minute, as the time was 12.30pm!...later realized...ITS SUNDAY!!!...I was sun...
Assam molestation-Wore a short skirt, get ready to be raped babe!!
My eyes opened today morning, saw the watch, got scared for a minute, as the time was 12.30pm!...later realized...ITS SUNDAY!!!...I was sunken in my dream world when my stomach knocked....where is my breakfast?!..Home alone, Music, my favorite cold coffee,cheese sandwich are my companion for this lazy sunday!...opened the newspaper(after a century), fliping the pages, this article by Pradipta Borgohain and Bala Samson on the assam molestation case caught my eye, which says that if you do not dress up properly and go to pub you are bound to be raped!!
article:
I love to call myself an independent,modern woman but these articles made me think, will my sleeveless ganji and shorts which I am wearing right now qualifies me to get raped?!
Why is the length of the skirt is directly proportional to an rape invitation?
Why is the general notion that girls who wears short dresses are the only rape victims in the world?
Why do people think that girls who wear shorts or trendy attires or go to pub are by default sluts?
Last but no the least, why is always a girl at blame?
Its an ageless notion in India that girls who wear jeans and skirts are characterless....they are giving an invitation to men to come and rape them...guys give me a break!!..if I am wearing anything like that, I love to be experimental with my look and want to enjoy life and its no sort of invitation to anybody for that matter!
As I write this blog, logged on to news channel, here it is again, women moral policing in Mangalore and an MLA describing the hypothesis that how short skirts play with men's testosterone and its a rape invitation card...I want to ask the crowd out there...especially women who are comfortable wearing salwar suit or saree...ARE YOU A VICTIM OF EVE TEASING OR MOLESTATION?...and I can see many hands raising out there!
If a woman is trendy in her dressing sense, sit in a bar to share a drink with her friends are there just to unwind herself from the hectic day is definitely not a bitch!..she is also a human being with a heart just like anyone else!....she is a wonderful daughter, sister and will be a lovely wife and mother!
Last but not the least why is always a woman at blame?...if a guy rapes a woman, why is that nobody points finger at them and they escape just because of the gender superiority?..there are not doing anything great for which they should be applauded!...why are boys not taught to respect not only women but every one as an individual!
I am very much sure that if a man does not treat a woman with respect, he will have the same attitude towards his own mother/sister!...and is definitely directly proportional to the ethics followed at your home!
Friday, April 6, 2012
Mayoso Pul--Forgotten War hero !!
Blogging!!....after long time!!...there is this small place...known as Hawai(Anjaw) in border areas of Arunachal Pradesh...the town was small and extremely beautiful as it was covered with snowy mountains all around, orange gardens..blue rivers..sunny mornings..breezy afternoons and somewhere in those rocky roads you will see this old guy wearing Black coat..if i remember correctly he always used to wear black...and yes black glove in his left hand...i used to wonder why does he always wear this gloves??
I do not remember who was that...some told me...this gentleman name is Mayaso Pul....he fought India-China war(1962)..his hand also got amputation...i used to think...how can someone fight India-China war that time and how?
The Place is highly terrain area...10-12 years ago..there were no roads or vehicles....it is hard to imagine how these guys must have fought the war!
I have faint memories of Mr. Pul...quiet, shy guy but full or pride...always had his head held high!
He used to come to our house even now and then and was extremely proud to tell the war stories...how he along with the army fought the war, the difficulties, Chinese aggression etc etc.
Iam surprised to read his plight in eastern express...the govt has failed to recognize the contribution of this war veteran!..and I am sure he is not the first and the last jewel of this country who the govt donot remember!
Do not understand why there are no policies which support such national treasures...they cant just be left to live a life of utter sadness.
Please spread this msg as much as you can so that he can at least get some recognition now!
I do not remember who was that...some told me...this gentleman name is Mayaso Pul....he fought India-China war(1962)..his hand also got amputation...i used to think...how can someone fight India-China war that time and how?
The Place is highly terrain area...10-12 years ago..there were no roads or vehicles....it is hard to imagine how these guys must have fought the war!
I have faint memories of Mr. Pul...quiet, shy guy but full or pride...always had his head held high!
He used to come to our house even now and then and was extremely proud to tell the war stories...how he along with the army fought the war, the difficulties, Chinese aggression etc etc.
Iam surprised to read his plight in eastern express...the govt has failed to recognize the contribution of this war veteran!..and I am sure he is not the first and the last jewel of this country who the govt donot remember!
Do not understand why there are no policies which support such national treasures...they cant just be left to live a life of utter sadness.
Please spread this msg as much as you can so that he can at least get some recognition now!
Monday, December 19, 2011
two year roller coaster ride...Master of badmaas activities(MBA)!!!!
you will study in a girl's college???....errrrr...u sure???.....was questions of my daddy who was freaked out when i told him about my plans to study in a girls college.
Not sure...papa...don’t have much options left...was my reply....MBA jo karna tha...aache college se!.....;p
So joined MOUNT CARMEL COLLEGE...was a new experience...sea of girls around me...guys were like aliens on our campus!!
And if anyone dares to enter our campus...we took every single care to rage him royally!!
So the Classes started....i decided to be a backbencher for the first and last time in my life...meet this KOHL eyed girl who was too good at numbers...was irritated at first...of her answers...her name was SWASTI PRADIP....gradually we became synomous of each other...Roli wer is swasti???.....swasti....wer is ur chote miyah??(me)
Dhere dhere....sarre khuraafati ek ho gaye....ritu, shatabdi, priya, sneha, pragati, rashi, snoopee, dimpi, preeti and the list continues..............
Assignment = cut copy session!
Internals = time for the best use of your smart phones!
Presentations = speaker does not know what is there in her slides(sadly)!
Front benchers = sleeping (zzzzzzzzzzzzzz)
Last benchers = pyar ki ek kahani on youtube( Indian Robert pattinson)!
Laptop = used to watch BASIC INSTINCT ( mast mast scene wali movie)!
Guest speakers = time to count how many hair he has in his moustache!!
Industrial trip = endless antakshri session and cuddling season( aabbaa dabba zaabbaa)!
Ooty trip = full on pangapanti and masti!
CDP = time for Ghost stories( mama bhoot)!
Canteen = best yummy pepper chicken( the only decent dish)!
Break time = gossip about damm everything!!
Exams = endless Xerox seasons( Xerox wala is about to become the new bill gates)!
Tax class =live terror season( worse than laden)!
Scared species = Booyyyzzzz...<3<3( galti se college mein!!)
Life line of the two year roller coaster ride= FACEBOOK!
How much ever boring the class is, internal ho, final xams.....bina facebook life was incomplete!
Used to promise myself....will finish this chapter first...then 5 min of facebook
( treat for accomplishing the task!)
ISS INVENTION KE LIYE... BABA MARK ZUCKERBERG KI JAI HO!!
Every day...evryone was counting days...kab ye sala college khatam hoga...pagal bana dala hai!!...presentations, internals, xams....sans kab loon??!!
Aabb???........................................................kuch khali khali sa hai!!
Hum bade ho gaye....job karni hai....kuch karna hai life mein....responsiblities....kal tak bachhee thi...abb auntyian puch ti hai....Beta saadi kab kar rahi ho?!( how do i know!)
Dont want to say this....but i think i miss that pagal panti!!!...want them back!
Thursday, December 15, 2011
top 5 romantic book of all times( my review)!!!
yeah!....the title says all!!...i have my hideous mood swings!...today is one such day!.....and iam feeling romantic...<3
was browsing to read something nice...classy...and well romantic!
so here is my list: the best classic love stories of all times.
1. Love Story by Eric Seagal.
2. Lolita by Vladamir Nobokov.
3.Perfect chemistry by Simone Elkeles
4. Gone with the wind by Margaret Mitchell
5.The times travellers wife by Audrey Niffenegger.
Enjoy!!!!...........:-)
was browsing to read something nice...classy...and well romantic!
so here is my list: the best classic love stories of all times.
1. Love Story by Eric Seagal.
2. Lolita by Vladamir Nobokov.
3.Perfect chemistry by Simone Elkeles
4. Gone with the wind by Margaret Mitchell
5.The times travellers wife by Audrey Niffenegger.
Enjoy!!!!...........:-)
Monday, August 29, 2011
kissa lokpal ka!!
hi!!!!.........i know i know!!.......m writing after a long time.....:-)
was seeing the high drama unfolding in the RAMLEELA MAIDAN in delhi for the last few days!!.....kissa lokpal bill ka!
A 74 yr old man has given the govt sleepless nights!...i was a never a big fan of gandhian princples....but now i am!...its cool to fight for your rights!....we are living in free country....the biggest democratic country in the world......but still half of the work does not happen unless you give something for chai pani (under the table)!!
when there are elections our politicians sing..."hum bane tum bane ek dujje ke liye"!!.....after elections they sing.......hum aapke aaapke hain kuan????!!!
the participation of the people was huge because the frustration of the common public has reached its saturation level....and write my words for sure.....this govt will not get a third term...had enough!!
scams, scams and only scams!....there was a time when i did not feel like opening newspaper....used to think kya hoga india ka????
and tab entry mari..."kisan baburao hazare ne"..... the movement stormed the nation....hunger strike for 12 days.....the nation felt in sync with him bcoz everyone was bugged up with corruption....kab tak jhele??!!!
the movement has made few thing very clear!!
1. fight for your own rights and learn to say no....you will face problems..fight for it.
2.never ever give up no matter what!
3. refuse to pay bribe.
4.And for govt..... listen to the public or history will repeat itself.....replica of tahir square at ramleela maidan!
WATCH OUT!!!!!!!!
was seeing the high drama unfolding in the RAMLEELA MAIDAN in delhi for the last few days!!.....kissa lokpal bill ka!
A 74 yr old man has given the govt sleepless nights!...i was a never a big fan of gandhian princples....but now i am!...its cool to fight for your rights!....we are living in free country....the biggest democratic country in the world......but still half of the work does not happen unless you give something for chai pani (under the table)!!
when there are elections our politicians sing..."hum bane tum bane ek dujje ke liye"!!.....after elections they sing.......hum aapke aaapke hain kuan????!!!
the participation of the people was huge because the frustration of the common public has reached its saturation level....and write my words for sure.....this govt will not get a third term...had enough!!
scams, scams and only scams!....there was a time when i did not feel like opening newspaper....used to think kya hoga india ka????
and tab entry mari..."kisan baburao hazare ne"..... the movement stormed the nation....hunger strike for 12 days.....the nation felt in sync with him bcoz everyone was bugged up with corruption....kab tak jhele??!!!
the movement has made few thing very clear!!
1. fight for your own rights and learn to say no....you will face problems..fight for it.
2.never ever give up no matter what!
3. refuse to pay bribe.
4.And for govt..... listen to the public or history will repeat itself.....replica of tahir square at ramleela maidan!
WATCH OUT!!!!!!!!
Monday, August 15, 2011
momy can you see me???
anjali is a pakka fodiee!...got her genes from her....she remember calling her mom n telling her.......mom the day i reach home, i want my carrot halwa on table...and she will sweetly say tum aao to sahi!...mil jaega!!....that voice is still ringing in anjali's head....exactly 1 year 28 days later....life has changed alot...but she is still stuck in front of J.J.Hospital ICU...was ready for 17 july 2010 from the past 12 yrs....but don't know how to tackle the life after that....and still struggling...................................................
anjali never cries...because her momy never wanted her to cry....will bring the sky down if she cries....and anjali dont want to hurt her now...she struggled for her life.....to make everyone's life better....and when anjali's turn came to do something for her....god took her momy away from her....far away................
what was momy's fault????.......nothing......a simple lady who just wanted her husband and kids to be happy.....always with a smiling face....she couldn't walk properly....because of her illness...but anjali never heard her mother complaining about anything.....her condition....gradually falling health...nothing.....whenever anjali used to ask her.....mom how are you??......koi takliff to nai hai na.....she will smile and say....nai re pagal...y u worry so much????....stop thinking so much...you will get blood pressure!
today the only question anjali ask herself....do god really exist???......hws her mother?.......can she listen to anjali???
anjali is still waiting for the answer.....................................................................................................
anjali never cries...because her momy never wanted her to cry....will bring the sky down if she cries....and anjali dont want to hurt her now...she struggled for her life.....to make everyone's life better....and when anjali's turn came to do something for her....god took her momy away from her....far away................
what was momy's fault????.......nothing......a simple lady who just wanted her husband and kids to be happy.....always with a smiling face....she couldn't walk properly....because of her illness...but anjali never heard her mother complaining about anything.....her condition....gradually falling health...nothing.....whenever anjali used to ask her.....mom how are you??......koi takliff to nai hai na.....she will smile and say....nai re pagal...y u worry so much????....stop thinking so much...you will get blood pressure!
today the only question anjali ask herself....do god really exist???......hws her mother?.......can she listen to anjali???
anjali is still waiting for the answer.....................................................................................................
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